Cheating and Bisexuality

Some people stay clear of dating bisexuals because they feel the bisexual person will cheat on them. These are myths that aren’t true are extremely harmful. It’s one of the reasons that bisexuals find it hard to date other individuals.

And yes, I’m one of the individuals who has personally been told this on more than one occasion by other lesbians. Just because one person cheated on your in your past who happened to a bisexual doesn’t mean that we’re all like that.

But let’s get real, cheating has nothing to do with one’s sexual orientation. Cheating has nothing to do with one’s sexual orientation.

Cheating is something that humans do when they are in relationships where one person feels at least one of the items listed below:

One person’s needs aren’t being fulfilled.

One person feels like they aren’t being seen, loved or supported.

One person feels like they are being misunderstood.

One person feels like their actions, behaviors and gestures of love are being minimized, ridiculed or not appreciated.

Bisexuals are more than capable of being in a committed long term relationships  just like everyone else.

It’s one thing for me to be judged by people in society because they don’t know any better and it’s another to be discriminated by people in our very own LGBTQ2+ community.

We’re more similar than different, so why not commit to understanding each other? In the end, love is love!

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